Why "The Gander"?

Why "The Gander"?

Most people are familiar with the mythology of St. Martin's cloak. Less familiar may be the myth of St. Martin's goose. It is told that Martin the priest was wanted as bishop. He didn't want the job, and so hid (here the accounts are fuzzy) in a goose pen, barn, or bush and was revealed by the honking of the goose. A gander is a male goose - much like a drake is a male duck. To "take a gander" means to take a peek, a look. We hope to use this space to take a deeper look at things happening at St. Martin's, and share more thoughts and information with you.

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Naming Our Values: Discussion Part 1

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For the next few weeks, we will use this blog as an extension of our Values Clarification work being done in Parish Forum at 10 a.m. and over lunch after our 11:15 a.m. service. You are welcome to come to the blog and see where the work is taking us each week. This will also serve as a way for people who were unable to attend one session to "catch up" and feel welcome at subsequent sessions. This week's discussion was on Aspirational Values. Next week we will move on to Accidental Values, and then finish out on the 23rd with Core Values.

ASPIRATIONAL VALUES

From the Two Sunday Forum Sessions on March 9 and the Vestry Retreat of March 8

Below you will find summaries of the “Aspirational Values” discussion from the weekend of March 8 and 9.  Below is a condensation of the responses from the general gatherings of members based on vote totals.  This is followed by the summary results of the Vestry discussion and then raw results from the Forum gatherings arranged according to the tables where people sat.  We are posting these results to stimulate discussion and reflection between our gatherings so we enter each forum prepared for a deep and enriching discussion. 

“Aspirational Values” are values we hope to more fully embody in our community in the future.

Aspirational Values – Sunday Forum Summary with Vote totals

       Community Engagement/Social Justice  50
       Unconditional Welcome and inclusion  46
       Including  & encouraging the gifts & calling of all members 26
       Diversity/Anti-Racism  19
       Growth in Faith/Spirituality 11
       Vision for our Youth Program 11

Aspirational Values – Vestry Version
  • Anti-Racist* Community where all types of privilege (race, class, gender) are dismantled so all are welcomed and equally heard and served.  Are we ready for EVERYBODY?
  • A Community that calls forth the gifts of its people.  A community of Lay-Leaders where leadership is cultivated and supported.  Where leadership development is a well-defined institutional function.
  • A community that serves as a portal for seekers of Jesus, where we develop our ability to do ‘spiritual outreach’ and tell about the benefits we derive from our relationship with God. 
*Anti-Racist is a term in our Diocese that refers to structural racism more than personal racist attitudes. Structural racism are all those factors that value people of color differently, restrict equal opportunity, and contribute to social and economic stratification based on race.

Aspirational Values – Raw Data from tables

·       Social Justice [7] – people suffering at the hands of others
o   Preferential options for the poor i.e. north Philadelphia
o   People in the penal system unjustly placed there
§  Those born into poverty
o   Advocacy for Social Justice
·       Unconditional Welcome [5]
o   Acceptance vs tolerance
§  Women
§  Diverse ethnic groups
·       Growth in our faith [11] – spirituality
o   Building on those set in place for us
o   Strengthen the church and community in our faith in God

O   O   O

·       Tithing [2] – in pledging and diocesan contributions also to wider-world causes, involving labor, talent, time
·       Radical Hospitality [9] – (or is it a Core Value)
·       Beauty in Worship [5] – place, music, liturgy
o   (Or accidental? Over-emphasized? Too costly and distracting?)
·       Being aware of engaging people to use their special [+4]– builds a sense of community
·       Pro-Diversity – richness of talents celebrated, encouraged
·       Growing sense of responsibility [6] – for engaging in our wider community – as in POWER or other groups.
O   O   O

·       Drawn back after first visit– open, engaged [1]
·       Sense of purpose in community [2]
·       Active Welcome [1]
·       Attracted to announced activities
·       Radical Welcome [1]
·       Genuine, not imposed [1]
·       Friendly [1]
·       Feel known as a person here
·       There is space for everybody in activities [1]
O  O  O

·       Open, inclusive, not our table but God’s table [2]
o   We give back, care about the vulnerable [2]
·       Vitality attractive to youth
·       Intellectual rigor and vigor, though provoking [3]
·       Life of Christ at center more than death of cross [1]
·       Energizing, making faith real [2]
·       Relational [1]
O  O  O
·       Making change happen [2]
·       Being open—to people, to ideas [2]
·       Valuing youth [1]
·       Outreach [4]—Could we be more involved with the community?
·       To be inclusive, e.g. eccentric [1]
·       Welcoming [4]
·       Deep spiritual longing, development, formation [2]
·       Integrate old and new – ideas, members [1]
·       Integrate newcomers [2]
·       More caregiving – in the sense of more spread out among more people [9]

O  O  O
Anti-racist/all inclusive congregation
·       Respect for individual
·       LANGUAGE! [1]
·       Where is Jesus in all this?
O  O  O

·       Nurture a spirit of engagement + volunteerism [9]
o   Diverse menu of opportunities
·       Awareness of our individual gifts and ministries [3]
·       Create a more inviting atmosphere/exterior/campus [3]
·       Increase diversity [4]
o   Race [1]
o   Age
o   Ethnicity
o   Sexuality
O  O  O

·       Value all members of congregation [4]
·       Welcoming within church and greater community [5]
·       Advocacy [like POWER] + Action [11]
·       To be rather than seem to be [4]
·       Diversity of gender, race, faith [5]
·       Listening to our call [6]
o   Finding new challenges and taking them on [1] (ex. Barbara Dundon – Africa)
·       Financial Generosity [4]
·       Tapping People resources
·       Community Engagement [9]
o   Does church already have a mission statement?
·       St. Martin’s NOW a Welcoming Place? [11]
o   “You are not part of apostolic core!”
·       Greeting your neighbor-reaching out
·       Communion practice explained – Communication
·       Everyone is welcomed to the table [2]
·       All responsibility of inclusion cannot be on the Rector. [1]
o   “Should be broader.”
·       Wellspring– participating organizational component [2]
o   “Deepens Word of God”
·       Evangelism? [1]
o   (Awkward)
o   If they’re core values
o   “It’s that we are never going to ask you what you believe.”
·       Core Value [7]—Hospitality and “Power of Attraction”
·       We do well for very young children – but that changes when children grow beyond early years [2]
·       Clarity and Communication [3]
·       Use of dots is now a core value
·       Welcome new visitors but continue this welcome beyond the first few visits—engagement into the future; more inclusion [6]
·       Make community engagement beyond the financial, in areas of poverty and inequality [9]
·       Vision for our youth program [11]
o   More active – service

o   Intentional hiring of minister for this mission